Removing MAX Liquidity *still learning*

Hi i recently started getting into solidity via online courses on udemy.
But before i started studying i launched a token (
Just basic copy and paste, change values etc.
I added liquidity via pcs. But now i cannot take it out.
i tried changing fees to 0, increasing allowance (not sure what that means) , max wallet to 1000000000000000000 for owner, setlimitsineffect false, swapandliquify to false, and could not find any _maxtxamount string or function

I've basically tried all the solutions i could find here using the search, i have not enabled trading, and retain ownership

Any help appreciated